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We live in a society; where different classes of people live in this society. There are many people whom everyone loves and appreciates. Again there are some people whom no one loves and cannot see. Certain habits will make you love, respect, and appreciate you. In fact, everyone sees a good person who has good behavior and good character; everyone loves him.
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Today, I am going to tell you that if you have this habit, everybody is going to love and respect you. Hope you read the completed article carefully.
1. Greeting:
This quality of saluting has been a very good virtue. All Muslims should salute a person they meet on the street. Many boys do not salute sir on seeing him, in fact, it is not right to do so. You might be a very rich man or somebody high, but if you salute a small person on the street, he will develop love for you. He definitely will appreciate you. You may be a big person, but when you are on the street and see a rickshaw puller, then greet him; this will mean that the taxi that such a big person has greeted you. So, different kinds of love will be created for you. We as students often go to our friend's houses, but we never salute our friend's parents. Now, whenever you go to a friend's place, you just march in to see your friend's parents. You will find that your friend's parents will have a different type of love for you. You can be shy in greeting younger people; it adds a lot of fun. Say Salam when you meet any Muslim people anywhere in the office or educational institutions. Especially if you salute those who are less qualified than you, he will appreciate you a lot. Want appreciation from a person? If you want to get love, then give greetings while meeting. Many students turn away in fear when they see a sir; it is not right to do this. The Sirs should be greeted when seen and inquired as to how they are. Salam does not decrease value but increases value. If you want to get love and appreciation from someone, then you must greet him when you meet him.
2. Evaluate:
If you value someone, they will value you more. When someone says something or makes a decision, you value it more. Maybe you will explain it to him later, but when someone says something, value it. You may have decided upon a job, someone gave you some advice, and you will consider that advice. But take the word of the person who advised you before that. You will be loved and respected by everyone. In this society, we live together with all classes of people. We should value everyone's words. There are lots of people; he will do what he takes initiative. Do not listen to anyone's words, it is not right to do so. In the society we live in, many a time all of us have to work together in this society. In this, people have to sit together, take everyone's opinion, and evaluate everyone's opinion and work. If you value everyone, then everyone will love you more and everyone will respect you. And if you can earn the love of everyone in Sanaa, you will see that everyone will respect and value you more. Therefore we must value everybody so that we can gain everybody's love and respect.
3. Not Getting Angry:
Anger is actually a much worse thing. Anger destroys people. No matter what happens to us, we can never be angry. If a person has done something against you, understand it with a healthy mind without getting hot, you will see that he has a different relationship with you. You can never be angry to get people's love and appreciation. If a person acts like anger, you still have to control not to get angry. Then you will see that person himself will become desperate. If you want to get people's love, you have to get rid of anger. Then you will see any person's attitude change because you are not showing anger, even though you have been hurt a thousand times. If you try to get angry, looking at the ground will break your anger. The moment that people come to stay in the society, it will be a bit messy; therefore it is not allowed to sit in anger. Only people make mistakes, so if someone makes a mistake you should understand him instead of getting angry. He will be in shock—not angry—after exposing you so much. To get love from people, never get angry if someone does something against you.
4. Talking with a Smiling Face:
We should talk to everyone with a smile. Because it is a great virtue. If you talk to people with a smile all the time, everybody will love you. If somebody ever speaks ill of you and insults you, you will still talk to him with a smile. You will see that one day he will understand you. Maybe somebody is suspecting you or can't see you for no reason; no need to fight. You smile and tell him that you didn't do anything wrong. He may not understand it at that time, but later he will feel that you are right. Even if somebody insults you, never speak harshly to him; speak to him with a smile. If you speak to everyone smiling, you will see a time when everyone loves and praises you.
5. Coming on the Risk of Others:
You will never sit in rest, you will stand forward when somebody else is in danger. Many people support you in any danger if you come forward or stand beside every danger of everyone. Then all of them will love you. There are many people in our society; if you do a small favor or help those people, everybody is going to love you. Many times, it is seen that the old man cannot cross the road. You helped him to cross the road. Again, many people are lying, give him food according to your ability. There are thousands of such, which cannot be ended. We should not sit and watch other people's danger. Coming forward in others' danger, we also shall be loved by all people.
Now, if we follow these few steps, we will see that everyone in our society will love and appreciate us. Besides these points, there are other duties; if we follow, we will be appreciated and loved by all. Hope we follow all these and ask everyone to follow them. Then there will be no violence or pride in our society. And there will be no quarrel. Our society will be beautiful.
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